How to Convince Others to Do What You Want

 In reality, good relationship is great way to achieve your dreams and goals. Whether you have good relationship or not, one of big challenge is to convince others to do what you want for your dream and goal. 

1. Teach Big Benefit for His Dream and Goal

First of all, you should know the secret of other's big goal and dream in the life. Now, you have to make the plan about how your desires helps same person to achieve their big dream and goal. 

Now, teach same plan to him. Teach him that what he will do actually benefits to his goal and dream. 

For example, you say to other to make Video for Your YouTube Channel

for this, you have to take following sub-steps

First confirm that 

a) Other wants to become rich

b) Others wants to famous through youtube

c) Other wants to grow his youtube channel subscribers. 

Now, show if he will make video for your channel, you will give back link to his channel and with this, he can grow his youtube channel subscribers and become rich through youtube

Teach him with this presentation for valuable investment of time. 

If you are interested other will invest money in your business, again, tell its benefits. 

1. He will get benefits of your business skills.

2. You are giving time to manage this business.

3. You have to show high return on this investment

4. You have to show past performance.

If you wants to sell something. Give the benefits of your products or service to him which actually he wants

1. It will help you to increase your confidence

2. It will remove your fear

3.It will help to increase your efficiency

4. It will solve your problem

5. It is easy to use

2. Solve His Excuses 

If other rejects to do your work what you want. Solve his excuses. If other says that he do not have time. Take his Sunday time. If he says, I am not healthy. Help him to solve his health problem.

3. Control His Emotions

If you win his emotional support, it is very easy that he will ready to do work for you. 

Bad but you show the dark side if you will not do work. FEAR is the reason millions of people do the job because they have to protect the family from hunger. 

Good Tell the Story, how did other work for you and got succeed. He will surely wants to think emotionally, same will happen with him and he will work for you. 

Tell the story, how did you help others and you get success.

4. MAKE Easy Other Help You

If you make it easy for others to help you. You can convince others to do what you want. Everyone wants to live in comfort zone. Either make the comfort zone for him or make him feel that it is easy through taking him imagination life. 

5. Convert Your Personal Voice into Team Voice

Instead saying, you will do for me and I will do for you. Team voice gives more powerful. We will achieve because we will both make the milestone that others will join us as volunteer. 

6. Be Scarce

If you are scarce, you will be valuable and if you are valuable, you can convince others to do what you want. 

For example,

 you want to sell your service to your customer. Say him with confidence that you do not have time for him. You are very busy for other important works but if you are really interested then he can book your appointment tomorrow morning. 

These words make you scarce and it is good chance your customer will take your products or service at your appointment day.